24 November, 2010

"Rules"!

A small (made_huge) incidence happened today morning. It's my Day-9 at Sybase and Day-7 to park in the company parking. As usual, I drove in at the parking security area anticipating usual sequence of security check - I will open my bag, the security lady will check it, then she will check pep+'s dickie and then I'll flash my campus access card and I'll go in and park pep+. But, as soon as I entered the area, the security guy stopped me. It went on like this-
He: "You don't have sticker for cybercity. You can't park in here."
I: "Which sticker?"
He: "Sticker that every vehicle has. You don't have it. You can't park in here."
I: "How am I supposed to know about the sticker?"
He: "Everyone knows about it. Didn't you get the mail?"
I: "No, I did not. And I don't know anything about it. Let me park in."
He: "Take your vehicle on one side. It's blocking other vehicles."

I did as he said. By the time I moved, the other lady (who checks my bag and all, every day) started.
She: "You can't park. You don't have sticker."
I: "Right you are. But, Nobody gave me sticker. Tell me whom to collect it from. I'll do that asap."
She: "No, it's been 4-5 months now, you should have had it on your vehicle by now."

This sentence hit me.
I: "What! I joined last Monday! Which 4-5 months you are talking about?"

But, somehow I could not stand there. May be, I felt insulted. I don't know. Without speaking a word, I took my pep+ off the security area; Crossed the road and parked in Pay_and_Park area.

Later I felt like crying. I probably did.

I decided to complain about those two security guards when I'm going to collect the sticker. Only then I could feel better.

But, the Q still remains. Was it my fault? No. I was not aware of it. Neither I got any mail about it. Was it their fault? No. They were doing their assigned duty. But, probably yes. Is that a way to talk? What was insulting to me? Of course NOT that I had to park in Pay_and_Park. Those 5 bucks don't cost me much. But, the way they interacted. But, what if say, instead of me, there was a terrorist who had stolen the access card from someone and is trying to park a vehicle, say with a bomb? Not very surprising, these days. Then, in that scenario, what they did - was right.

My morning was spoiled; (Or did I myself spoil it by thinking too much?)

So, to keep myself cool, I decided as follows-
1. May be I have similar looks as that of a terrorist. So, they did not trust me.
2. I will complain about them when I'll go collect sticker.
3. Next time I won't cry.
4. I am strong enough. I should have stood there itself to prove my point. But, don't I have work? Why should I prove myself to those security guards? huh!
5. Write a blog post. Clear my mind and start working.

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Hermione said...

Yes, it happens... to keep yourself cool is the only way out.
And next time time you have your chance make sure those guards pay back for your insult ! :-)

koustubh kulkarni said...

Nice writing ...
Has happened with me several times. what I do
Usually is, keep my ego aside and talk with respect. Like 'kaka ...jau dya .. Udya nakki gheun yeto. Mag tumhi kuthale, Baramatiche ka ' etc etc .. And it works!!