21 September, 2009

i cannot climb.. so?!

see, i cannot climb.. i just cannot climb. i can climb up the stairs but i cannot climb up the mountain.. well, i don't know why.. and the worst thing i have ever heard is - because i am fat.. and u know what, since childhood I cannot climb.. the reason being the respiratory problem.. well, don't want to go into details.. but, it has nothing to do with fatness - fatness has just acted as a catalyst to increase the severity of the problem.. but it has to do with respiration system..

but, who cares!

and, btw i also heard that - well that friend of yours - some xyz person, could climb and a smiley after that! Meaning, though that friend of mine is fat, s/he could climb (and thus I should also give a try!) rubbish... first, does that friend have respiratory problem? Is the fatness only common thing between us?
on what basis, you concluded that?! and second, why do you assume that I never tried that before? do u think, I am making a statement like "I cannot climb" just like that? just for fun?

btw, that reminds me the way my baba (dad) reacts.. consider a simple situation.. aai (my mom) prepares some (relatively) less common curry / sabji which she prepares say not more than twice a year, so basically since I was child, I have tasted that at least 10 -20 times.. right? okay, so, she prepares that one day and I say - no, i don't like it.. I will make something else for myself and eat it. and , you know what does my baba says on this? - khaawun tar bagh. meaning - just try it..! i hate that reply.. he has seen me eating and not liking that subji most of the times and now when I am capable of cooking, I am just finding an alternative for myself - what's the issue!?! I mean - its so simple, in fact, tasting that sabji and then hoping that i will like it - will actually save me from the effort of cooking for myself, right? Still, I am ready to go for the alternative, that obviously means - I REALLY DON'T LIKE THAT! Is this too tough to interpret!? uff...

anyways.. coming back to "cannot climb"..
.... yeah, and then I am not allowed to get angry or hurt whatsoever.. neither is my friend because even s/he was pulled into this, by the mention of s/he being fat.. still not allowed / expected..

i don't understand why do people have to behave like this.. may be that is how it works.. I might never understand this.. assume! assume! whether you know about that person sufficiently or not - just assume and conclude! yeah, and say at the end - i was just kidding!

btw, i was just trying to recollect an incident when I behaved exactly similar.. but, then i feel, i never did that. yeah, I too assume and conclude but the fact is - I end up hurting myself! hehe..

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